Apart and Together: Responding to Opportunity in Extreme Times

by Miki Kashtan

I am one of 7,773,458,922 (and changing faster by the millisecond) who are affected by the Coronavirus eruption into our lives. 32,782,280 of us were born this year alone. These numbers are staggering beyond my imagination, and yet our fates are deeply intertwined. So much so that to keep ourselves and each other as safe as possible, we are asked to stay apart from one another as something entirely invisible – a tiny virus – circles the planet much faster than the ability of most of us to grasp the meaning of what is happening, and as numbers of people infected and dying rise exponentially.

This piece and subsequent ones are not about the science of viruses, nor about what is needed to address the pandemic per se. These are not my areas of expertise, and enough information of many kinds is already out there. It ranges from Tomas Pueyo’s articles on Medium, which I find so far to be accessible, clear, and oddly uplifting, especially when he shows, in “The Hammer and the Dance,” how at any point in any particular region, things can be done to change its course. Many questions also arise that leave me troubled, such as why a lockdown instead of testing, which was used by Singapore to essentially bring the pandemic to a halt, as documented here. These questions, too, I am leaving aside.

Instead, I focus on what is within the scope of my work: making human and social sense of where we are, looking at how this particular crisis fits within the larger set of overwhelming crises we are already facing, detecting what might be opportunities for transformation, and proposing some ideas about how to respond, individually and collectively. This is a lot, and so I plan to write several pieces. In this one, I give context for my perspective that this crisis is an immense opportunity while also being a dire catastrophe in the making, and an overview of what comes in the following segments.

What Crisis Makes Possible

One of the less known stories of the events of September 11, 2001, is the rescue of hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers via boats in a matter of hours. It happened organically, spontaneously, as any boat that was in the water responded to the call to get people from the tip of the island. No command and control. Not even much coordination. Simply people mobilizing to care for others they didn’t even know. The numbers and speed of evacuation exceeded anything ever done before, faster than Dunkirk in WWII.

When 95 percent of the town of Greensburg in Kansas was leveled by a tornado in 2007, those who chose to stay and rebuild the town ended up with a new town design that would be the envy of environmentalists anywhere. This outcome would be surprising anywhere, but it is even more so in a town that is situated in a deeply conservative state.

This type of phenomenon, documented in particular by Rebecca Solnit in A Paradise Built in Hell, is well known and intuitively understood. It explains, also, why three times as many people as was expected responded to the UK National Health Service request for volunteers: a total of about 750,000 within days. Still, the question remains: What is it that in times of crisis allows so many people to tap into care, generosity, and even sacrifice? The companion question is even more significant for me: Why is it that such behavior is not the norm? Why is it that the architecture company that rebuilt Greensburg, in full collaboration with its residents, is unsure that this feat could be reproduced without a natural disaster?

‘A seed of opportunity’

As with many complex questions, many factors likely contribute to this phenomenon. One that I like to focus on, because in it I see a seed of opportunity, is that during times of crisis, scripts don’t work and habits are challenged. At such times we are pushed to respond freshly in the moment, from deeper layers of ourselves than those conditioned by the social order. Jolted out of autopilot, the future becomes even less known. Suddenly, deeper patterns become visible, taboo topics open up, and actions that might have seemed impossible are now commonplace. There is a very real possibility that at least in some parts of the globe, the immediate response to the current conditions will reflect a move toward honoring life, interdependence, and needs, even as the risk of increased totalitarianism is present. This change is what the crisis makes immediately possible, because, as David Korten says in Why Coronavirus Is Humanity’s Wake-Up Call, “The challenges are monumental and are likely to be addressed only as we begin to understand that business as usual is simply not an option.”

In addition, it seems vitally important to me that we focus on how to “anchor the now increased need for togetherness and cooperation into a compelling new normal that has the robustness to withstand a backlash into capitalist norms when this first Corona wave passes,” in the words of my friend Emma Quayle.

Whether we support current measures taken in most of the world or have completely different perspectives on what makes sense to do, one thing is utterly clear to me: The pause in business as usual, and the reality of a pandemic that is simultaneously affecting everyone in a world hyper-focused on information and technological connectedness, are creating a crack through which we can see something. This is true even as many suffer immensely, including and not limited to: the ones hit by the disease directly; those who care for them; the workers exposed and overworked, whether medical staff, food workers, and the many whose jobs are finally recognized as essential; the workers who cannot work from home and whose work isn’t deemed essential, who are in an unprecedented unemployment crisis; the people of the global-majority world, many of whom will not have access to medical care when the pandemic hits them.

My reaction – once I grasped the immensity of the situation we are facing – was quite intense. It wasn’t fear, nor personal anxiety (though I am 64 and thus at more risk than many), because I am not afraid of dying. Instead, my main and immediate quest was to reassess purpose. What has been most important is to know what is mine to do and then do it. This piece and the ones that come next are a core part of my answer to this deep question: Part of what I am called to do, always and ever more so now, is to speak of the significance of what happens, and to offer a picture of what I see as possible; what a future aligned with our evolutionary makeup can be, and what we can do, individually and collectively, to increase the chances of getting there.

In broad strokes, here’s what I see as the potential of the Covid-19 pandemic. To me, both the pandemic itself and the responses to it make visible what was hidden in a variety of areas. The pause, in particular, is something that, as far as I can tell, has not happened since at least the rise of capitalism, even before the industrial revolution. It creates an unknowability of the future, despite the intense pressure and desire of so many to go back to normal, as if that normal were ever workable. None of the past scripts and ways of understanding things, by themselves, have any way of predicting what will come. Because of this inherent humility, each of the elements being exposed lends itself to a transformative potential, though some also include potential catastrophic futures. In these pieces, I focus on the potential for transcending the past, consciously leaving to others the detailing of what horrors might await us. What I offer here is entirely based on my own intuition and perception. Nothing more.

  • Addressing needs beyond market economies: It is now abundantly clear that market economies are incapable of responding to needs just because those needs exist. Instead, despite some stories of voluntary production of medical equipment, the overwhelming proportion of the response to needs is happening in the hands of states and communities. This makes possible a conversation that until recently would have been too radical and now is clear: How do we shift from keeping the economy going to directing resources to where they are most needed, as a general principle of living?
  • Grounding in interconnection and solidarity: Against the deep groove of the dominant framework that holds we are all separate from each other and from life, it is no longer possible to escape the reality that we are interconnected – both within our species and with life as a whole. This is the deepest paradox of the Coronavirus: We are made to be apart because we are so intertwined; we are together in weathering this well or not. We can no longer pretend that most humans and everything else are just resources to be extracted and exploited for the (very dubious) benefit of the few. None of us are protected. None of us are “other.”
  • Finding systemic solutions to systemic problems: We have been fed such a steady diet of individual self-sufficiency and of individual capacity as the measure and cause of everything, an overwhelming number of people has lost the capacity to see the systemic context within which we live. Even as we live into this globally fast-moving event, we continue to seek individual solutions. What if, collectively, we began to see the possibilities of coordinated, systemic responses, most notably at the level of resource flow, well past this immediate crisis? What could coordination without command and control even look like?
  • Restoring dignity and meaning to work and separating it from sustainability: No matter how much technology we have discovered, how much virtual prowess we unleash, and how much information processing has come to dominate life, there is absolutely no substitute for human hands attending to things and to bodies. We all now know which types or work really are essential to attend to needs and which ones are only there to buttress “the economy” and generate empty resources. What would happen if work became redefined in relation to needs? What if all the jobs that David Graeber calls “bullshit jobs” were eliminated? What if people’s capacity to feed themselves, their families, and their communities, as well as their sense of dignity and meaning, were not dependent on their work being socially valued within a paradigm of scarcity and competition?
  • Accepting our vulnerability to consume less: We’ve been taught to believe that our ability to amass resources is the both the measure of our value and the most reliable way to ensure our safety and well-being. As the virus cracks through political, social, cultural, national, and economic lines of human separation, the vulnerability of those of us who have been living in relative privilege is made abundantly clear. At one and the same time, we learn that we need far less than we ever imagined to sustain ourselves and to attend to our well-being, and that no amount of resources will ever fully protect us from being biological, death-bound creatures. How do we, individually and societally, resist the pull to go back to the “normal” we all know is costly for all of us spiritually, for most of us materially, and for the entire web of life on planet earth existentially?
  • Blurring the distinction between public and private spheres: As so many of us around the globe are suddenly at home, we find ourselves with partners, children, or parents for longer hours every day. In times past, and in parts of the world still now, home was a center of production, not just of consumption and reproduction. Women never faced the decision to be with their children or go to work, because children were around while work was happening, often in community. Children didn’t get packed into rooms with only children their own age for many hours. What is the opportunity for integration, for blending, for changing the nature of work, for changing the lives of children and adults, that this enforced separation from the public sphere is inviting us to imagine?
  • Reengaging with the full range of our emotions: This crisis is bringing up intense emotions for many. Raw fear and panic, grief for all that brought us here and what lies ahead, anger at the way the situation is handled, shock at the speed of spread, and curiosity to know how it will unfold are just some of them. We have been trained to suppress and ignore our emotions as part of the larger paradigm of controlling anything “unruly” in life. Instead, we can envision a way of being that aims to listen to, integrate, and learn from the full range of our emotions. The entire western civilization project is based on elevating “rationality,” narrowly defined, above anything else. Having a future, to my mind, rests on being able to reclaim the fullness of our biological, fully embodied, feeling, needs, and caring selves. Now is the time, individually and collectively, to do just that.
  • Finding collective wisdom to move into a future for all: Our modern way of living has shown us three fundamental ways to make decisions: competitively, each for ourselves regardless of cost to others; through market mechanisms that we know are skewed deeply in the direction of those with enormous amounts of resources; and through the power of governments, imperfectly if at all deemed to represent the will of the people, with more or less state violence to enforce those decisions. None of these mechanisms actually works to reach wise decisions that care for the whole, including humans, other forms of life, and the future of the planet. Could this time be an opportunity to dramatically increase the prevalence of collaborative decision-making processes that mobilize the wisdom that comes from integrating divergent perspectives, through mutual influencing, into creative paths forwards? This outcome would, in my mind, be the ultimate positive outcome if we indeed manage to emerge from this pandemic and the many crises that gave rise to it, that are exacerbated by it, or that are specifically created by our responses to it.

Overall, I see this crisis as the first opportunity in at least centuries, if not millennia, to change course, precisely because the entire machinery that keeps it all going is ground to a halt, on a global scale. This pandemic is inviting us to abandon the disastrous path of scarcity, separation, and powerlessness focused on controlling life and death.  We have an unprecedented opportunity to reconnect with life as we celebrate its messy preciousness and surrender in full to death as part of life. We can find, again, flow, togetherness, and choice as we accept our interconnectedness with each other and with all that lives. Just as the anonymous biblical author reminds us: We have been given the choice between life and death, and we can choose life.


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7 thoughts on “Apart and Together: Responding to Opportunity in Extreme Times

  1. John Backman

    Miki, as usual, I find your thoughts here deep and important and true. Weirdly, as a result, they bring to mind one concern that keeps poking at me throughout the pandemic: our systems’ extraordinary talent for co-opting messages. I watched some big-network television over the weekend, with the unavoidable ads, and was struck by the number of words and concepts that repeated from one ad to the next to the next: words like together, hero, normal. Their repetition feels more like ersatz mantra (designed to boost our spirits–not an unworthy goal) than meaningful concept. I wonder if the sheer volume and repetition of these words will end up diverting people from the essential wisdom they contain, especially as they are used in pieces like this.

    Put another way, I experience our cultural signal-to-noise ratio as extraordinarily low. It’s hard for me at least to listen through the noise to pick up the meaningful signals.

    I’d love to hear if this makes any sense to you, or resonates with what you’ve seen.

    1. Miki Kashtan Post author

      Hi John,

      I am saddened to see how long it’s taken me to respond.

      I, too, have thought about how words get re-appropriated by the mainstream culture. I aim to attend to it by being as clear as I know to be with how I use words. I struggle with it a lot. I often use words in a different way from their usual use, and I see that is often difficult to convey the meaning I am aiming for. I also know I want to keep the option of using words as I mean them rather than ceding their meaning to the mainstream culture, including sometimes the mainstream oppositional culture.

      I hope this makes sense and isn’t too late to be even remembered.


  2. yuval dor

    Thank you Miki for your deep concern and your ability to contribute towards global new education and trans-fomation.

  3. Vanessa Patel

    As always, I really enjoyed the insights you come up with and especially now during this fraught situation which effects us all, and will continue to do so for some time. I love the sensibility of rethinking so much that we allow to occur be it unmindful consumerism or the way we look after our children. This COVID-19 has been called the ‘reset’ button for our Mother Earth, but my fear is that although there will be many who take the learning experience to heart and so, make the necessary changes, the majority will just be relieved that they can resume their ‘normal’ life. I have been taking this time to go deeper into my meditation practice, and it has helped me immensely to keep fear, panic and hopelessness at bay. Thank you. Vanessa

  4. jane trimble

    Brilliant…thank you…an articulate expression of the words “finding the opportunities in a crisis”…and offering so much hope for the issues that are crying out to be addressed…

  5. Michael Cranston

    Choose Life
    The reference to Deuteronomy 30:15-20 is fascinating.
    Within the Torah, the book is known as Devarim (“Words”)
    It is distinct from the other books of the Torah because the author ‘looks back’ rather than following the style of a contemporary account.
    This seems to link to COVID-19 where much of the literature is about ‘what is happening rather than reflecting on ‘what has happened.

    1. Miki Kashtan Post author

      Thank you Michael for this nuance I wasn’t quite aware of even though, like all Israeli Jewish children of my generation, including secular ones like me, I was taught these books three times during my compulsory education.


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